Man claims his incarceration aiding wife in divorce proceedings

Umm…I’m not sure that he gets it. From Carl Hessler Jr. at The Mercury

A Lower Merion chiropractor accused of trying to kill his estranged wife claims the woman is trying to keep him behind bars so she can get a “leg up” in their divorce proceedings.

Alan E. Kushner, 58, formerly of Righters Ferry Road, a separated father of two adult sons, made the claim in papers filed in Montgomery County Court in which he asked a county judge to overturn previous judicial rulings that denied him bail. Two judges previously agreed with prosecutors that Kushner’s bail should be denied because the safety of his estranged wife cannot be guaranteed if he’s released.

You’re on trial for attempted murder but your biggest complaint is not that you may be innocent but your estranged wife is getting ahead of you when it comes to the divorce proceedings.

No…I don’t think he gets it.

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